The Focus of AUGUST is...
I ASK FOR WHAT I WANT!
I actually began my voice-over career by ASKING the vo agent in my commercial agent's office if she could recommend a good VO class. I respected that VO was a skill all its own and that I needed proper training. I then wrote her a thank you note, kept her up to date with my progress in class, and she became my first voice-over agent! What if I didn't ask?
Is there something you want but are afraid to ask? The biggest reasons most people are afraid to ask are fear of looking stupid, appearing needy and experiencing rejection. But, by not asking, you are already saying no to yourself before anyone has a chance to! First, you have to believe what you want is possible or you may not have the courage to ask for it.
How do you deepen your belief?
See yourself having already accomplished the goal. Visualize yourself getting a "yes!" Fill yourself with positive expectation first, and then ask for what you want. This will help motivate you to take action.
Be clear and specific. Agents know you want more auditions. Don't ask "Can you get me in more doors?" How about getting specific and saying "I would love to work on Mad Men, can you help get me in to read for their casting director?"
Expect a positive response. Don't back-pedal your request. Ask, expect a yes, and listen for the answer.
Take nothing personally. If someone says "no" to your request, don't give up, and don't take it personally! On a different day, you may get a different answer. And in the meantime, instead of being offended, you might just discover another way to get what you want! Be persistent and you will reach your goal!
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